INCEST - IITB 12.18

 

Chapter 12.18

Incest

Incest before the Law – The Law – The Law Defied

Exceptions to the Law - Physical Deformities

Sex with Mothers, Daughters, Sisters, Aunts

Sex with Adopted Members of the family  

 

 

Sexual union inescapable involves the whole person whether within or outside of the marriage.

Marriage is a state in which a people can naturally fulfill their respective Sexual roles.

 

First Word

     SEX IS STRONG, it drives both men and women to go against God’s commands.  Sometimes the passion is so great that you can’t escape it.  Sometimes the drive for sex is so strong it becomes RAPE.  While immoral behavior is only one of the Ten Commandments,[1] it is by far one of the strongest; INCEST spins off unwanted children, lies, emotional distress, broken families, disease, sickness, physical disorders and sometimes murder.[2] 

     It’s a commandment; no sex outside of marriage; your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, so therefore do not dishonor God.  SEX outside of marriage IS A SIN.[3]

THE BIG QUESTION: Can a brother marry his sister or can a father marry his daughter?

 

The LAW Defined

     Wikipedia: Incest is sexual activity between family members or close relatives.  This typically includes sexual activity between people in a consanguineous relationship (blood relations), and sometimes those related by affinity, such as members of the same household, step relatives, those related by adoption or marriage, or members of the same clan or lineage.

     Bible: Attempted marriage or SEX between closely related persons constituted a capital crime therefore it required capital punishment; DEATH.  The Hebrew nation was called to a higher code of sexual ethics than their pagan neighbors, the Hebrew word for Incest means “a mixing of unnatural elements”. 

 

Physical Deformities

     Wikipedia says that a common justification given for the incest taboo is the impact inbreeding may have on children of incestuous sex, children whose biological parents have a close genetic relationship have an increased risk of congenital disorders, disabilities and death due at least in part to genetic diseases caused by the inbreeding.

     The Egyptians interestingly enough thought that marriages between brothers and sisters made the blood line stronger. Medical science today shows that it can cause Down Syndrome, mental impairment, stunted growth, shortened hands or neck, low muscle tone, flat head, large tongue, abnormal teeth, abnormal ears, flattened nose, slanted eyes, undescended testicles as well as congenital heart disease.

     Albinism (white skin) results from inheritance of recessive gene alleles, it’s a congenital disorder characterized by the complete or partial absence of pigment in the skin.  In scripture it appears that when God gave His laws against incest[4] that He already knew that children could have physical disorders through the inbreeding. 

 

Incest LAW

     The Incest LAW would include having SEX with your sister even if she is the child of your mother from a previous marriage; it included Sex with Your Son’s Daughter, your Father’s Sister, your Mother’s Sister, your Aunt, your Daughter in Law or your Bothers Wife.[5]  You cannot have sex with a woman and her daughter nor a woman and her sister while they are both living.

 

     Before the Levitical Law was given there was obviously major incest occurring during the time of Adam and Eve whose children intermarried with their sisters, bothers, cousins and so forth, fulfilling the mandate and COMMAND to be fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth.[6] That same mandate and Command was passed along to Noah to be fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth.[7]  (NOTE: Adam was told to RE-PLINISH the earth, SO could there have been life on earth before Adam? … that’s another Word Study; the Gap Theory.)

     Adam begat his third son Seth when he was a young man of only 130 and lived to be 930 years of age[8] giving plenty of time to produce many extended family members for Cain to choose from to marry.  There are no records of any daughters, as the recorded line of heritage was through the Sons.

     What COLOR was God?  We see God as the same color that we are as scripture says we were made in His image and likeness.[9]  What Color was Adam before any genetic disorders?  What if Adam had BLACK skin and Eve had YELLOW skin and when Cain killed Abel the mark[10] that God placed on him was that he made his skin turn WHITE setting up the skin colors for the races. (That one is just for fun, it’s not in the Bible … so don’t get upset.)

     Sometimes it does gives me pause to wonder, if in God’s plan, the inner marriages caused the physical changes in skin colors and eventually the different races.  Just a thought.

     In the Belief System of many students of the Word and my BS too; we believe that Noah’s three sons took wives from other nations before the flood.  (See the Word Study on the other nations; the Races.)

Noah repopulated the earth with three races;

Shem is the progenitor of the “Semitic” peoples of the East. (White)

Japheth’s descendants are the inhabitants of Asia Minor and the sea people. (Yellow)

Ham’s descendants became the Egyptians, Canaanites and Africans. (Black)

 

The Law Defied

     There are recorded instances in the Bible where incest occurred between members of the same household or with step relatives or those related by marriage, or were members of the same clan, which makes you scratch your head and say “WHAT’S GOING ON HERE”?  The first one we see is Lot, who was the grandson of Terah, Abraham’s Father.

1)      Lot’s two daughters got him drunk on two different occasions and had sex with him because there were no tribal men to marry to be able to preserve and carry on their family line.[11]

2)     Abraham married Sarah his sister who was the daughter of his father, but not the daughter of his mother; it was his step sister.[12]

3)     Nahor the brother of Abraham married his brother Haran’s daughter.[13]

4)     Ruben has sex with his father Jacob’s wife and concubine.[14]

5)     Amram married his father’s sister, Jochebed.[15]

6)     Judah unknowingly had sex with Tamar his daughter in law.[16]

7)     Amnon rapes his Sister Tamar and then his passion turned to hate.[17]

8)     Absalom went in and had sex with his father David’s concubines.[18]

9)     King Herod took his brother’s wife and married her.[19]

10)  Isaac marries Rebekah who was his near of kin.[20]

11)   Jacob although tricked, married Sisters; Leah and Rachael.[21]

12)  Rehoboam married his cousin Mahalath.[22]

 

Noah’s Family “Affair”

     Uncover the Nakedness is a polite term used in the Bible meaning to have SEX.  In the Story of Noah; he had planted a vineyard and made some wine out of the grapes and got drunk and was inside his tent naked; (In my BS, I personally think EVERYBODY was drunk.)

     It seems someone in the near family came in and uncovered Noah’s nakedness.[23]  I realize some students of the Word BS is that this was the first act of HOMOSEXUALITY with Noah and had nothing to do with Mrs. Noah at all, and I believed that too for a while. 

     In my BS, I believe scripture supports, that someone had sex with Noah’s wife.  Many students believe the perpetrator was his son Ham and should have been put to death;[24] others think it was not Ham, but Ham’s Son “Canaan” who did the dirty.  Noah’s reaction was NOT to curse his son Ham, but to curse his grandson Canaan.  

     NONE OF THE ABOVE THOUGHTS ARE TOTALLY ACCURATE; in our BS we forget that Noah was not under the Mosaic Law, much less the Ten Commandments; you must read the Word Study “Noah Gets Drunk”; you will be stunned at what actually happened, you will FREAK OUT when you find out why Cannan was cursed.

     The Bereans were commended for being so OPEN MINDED and checking out everything that was taught by Paul with scripture.  It is so important to have an open mind to new thoughts as long as they are proven with scripture.  My Belief System has been changed many times by being open minded and reading what other commentators have documented with scripture. 

 

Acts 17:11 - The people of Berea were more OPEN-MINDED and searched the Scriptures day after day to see if Paul and Silas were teaching the truth. NLT

 

 

The LAW Exception

     Levirate Marriage is the exception to the rule of the intermarriage law and is where a surviving brother marries the childless wife of a deceased brother.[25]  Onan by law was supposed to marry Tamar his dead brother’s wife and produce a child, but spilled his semen on the ground so he would not have a child by her;[26] so God took his life.

The Take Away

     Incest and Sexual immorality are not new temptations or something special to modern man, it’s been around since creation and God has made His positon on it very clear.  You GRIEVE the Holy Spirit[27] when you go against God’s commands; they are placed there for your own good and the good of your children and your children’s children.

     Do not test God:[28] you DO have control over your own body[29] and God will give you a way of escape from the temptation.[30]  SEX IS STRONG and you have to WANT to control it in order to subdue it; it all starts in the imaginations of your mind.

     Life is choice driven; you don’t have to stay where you are.[31] God has given you a lifetime to repent[32] and leave the life of immorality behind for a new life that honors Him.[33]  It’s a choice.

 

INCEST GRIEVES THE HOLY SPIRIT

 



[1] Exodus 20:14 – ADULTERY NOT -- Proverbs 6:32 – An adultery destroys himself for lack of knowledge. -- Acts 15:20 – FORNICATION NOT -- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 – It is God’s will that you abstain from fornication

[2] Proverbs 27:7 – When you’re horny, a toad frog looks like a prince. -- Proverbs 23:27-28 – Sex is a deep pit and hard to get out --Proverbs 22:14 – An immoral woman’s kiss pulls you into a deep pit --  Proverbs 5:3 – Her lips will melt you, they are smoother than oil

[3] Exodus 22:16 – If you have sex, then you should get married.

[4] Leviticus 18:6 – Don’t have sex with a blood relative.  -- Leviticus – 18:9-18 – NO SEX with Sisters, Daughters or Aunts

[5] Ezekiel 22:10-11 – NO SEX with your Daughter in Laws or your Neighbor’s Wives

[6] Genesis 1:28 – Adam; be fruitful, multiply, and replenish the earth

[7] Genesis 9:7 – Noah; be fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth

[8] Genesis 5:5 - Adam lived 930 years

[9] Genesis 1:26 – Let us make man in our image; our likeness

[10] Genesis 4:15 - Then the LORD put a mark on Cain

[11] Genesis 19:31-36 – Lot has SEX with his TWO daughters

[12] Genesis 20:12 – Abraham married his Sister

[13] Genesis 11:29 – Nahor married his brothers daughter

[14] Genesis 49:4 - Ruben had SEX with his father’s Wife -- Genesis 35:22 – Ruben has SEX with his father’s Concubine

[15] Exodus 6:20 - Amram married his father’s sister Jochebed

[16] Genesis 38:16-18 – Judah unknowingly had sex with his daughter in law -- 1 Chronicles 2:4 – Judah had twin sons by daughter in law

[17] 2 Samuel 13:14 - Amnon rapes his Sister Tamar

[18] 2 Samuel 16:21-22 - Absalom had sex with father’s concubines

[19] Matthew 14:3-4 – King Herod marries his brother’s wife

[20] Genesis 24:4 - Isaac marries Rebekah; near of kin

[21] Genesis 29:23-27 – Jacob tricked; marries sisters Leah & Rachel

[22] 2 Chronicles 11:18 - Rehoboam married his cousin Mahalath

[23] Leviticus – 18:7-8 – The father’s nakedness is having SEX with the Mother.

[24] Leviticus 20:11 – SEX with your mother; both be put to death -- 1 Corinthians 5:1 – SEX with your Mother is immoral -- Deuteronomy 27:20 – CURSE whoever has SEX with his Mother

[25] Deuteronomy 25:5 – Brother should fulfill duties of dead brother

[26] Genesis 38:7-10 – Onan did not fulfil his duty towards Tamar

 

[27] Ephesians 4:30 – Do not GRIEVE the Holy Spirit

[28] 1 Corenthians 10:8-9 – Do not test God, some did and died

[29] Galatians 5:22-23 – You have control over your body

[30] 1 Corenthians 10:13God will make a way for you to escape temptation, so that you can stand up under it

[31] Joshua 24:15 – Choose today who you will serve

[32] Revelation 2:20-21 – God gives us time to repent

[33] 1 Peter 4:3-4 – You must leave the immoral past behind.

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